Have you been wanting to get back with your girlfriend but feel unsure as to whether your ex is feeling the same way? You don’t want to suffer the pain of further rejection or humiliation by trying to get back together again if she isn’t interested and has moved on.
This article is aimed at giving you some pointers to help determine if your girlfriend wants to get back together with you or not.
1.) Does She Maintain Constant Contact With You?
If you find that your ex is constantly trying to call you or finding ways to see you or talk to you then this is a sure sign that she is keen to work things out and get back with you. Keep close attention to the frequency of these attempts as the more frequent they are the higher the probability that she is wanting to rekindle the relationship.
Anyone who avoids creating a distance from their ex will most probably still have feelings for them.
2.) Does your ex take an interest in your social life?
If she asks you if you are dating, or who you are socialising with then this is a very obvious indication that she still has feelings for you. Your ex may be testing the waters to see where she stands in your social life
If she finds out that you are dating, you might notice some change in her attitude and the actions that she takes, specifically because she fears that she may lose you to some other girl if you continue to date.
3.) Does your ex talk about the past?
One sure sign that your ex is still thinking about you and hasn’t moved on is if she brings up memories from your time together. This may be a particularly special day you spent in each others company, or just things you used to do together. The more she does this the greater the chance is that she hasn’t or doesn’t want to move on.
Your ex may be talking about your past like this in the hope that you will reminisce and remember all the good times you had together. She may be offering hints with the intention of rekindling an interest in getting back together.
4.) Does your ex get jealous easily?
If she shows signs of jealousy every time you mention going out to a social event or meeting up with your friends then this is a good sign that she wants to be with you. You could always use this opportunity to gauge the reaction when she sees you date another woman. BE WARNED though. This could easily backfire on you and cause more problems.
These four signs could give you an insight as to whether or not your ex is interested in getting back with you. If you feel that there is a chance for rekindling your relationship you really need to talk to each other and find out what the other is feeling and why they think the relationship broke down in the first place.