People are different in character, thoughts, body and even in sexual life. Sexual life starts different for everybody.
It is absolutely normal for teens, guys and even for all adults to be nervous about having sex even if it is something that they did before too. Sex is a big deal and it can carry up a lot of anxieties.
Sex can change the relationships atmosphere. This is the main cause why it is important to make sure that teenagers are in healthy relationships before having sex.
Almost all teens believe that they need to be in a relationship or at least emotively connected to another person for to have only sex. For example, 17-year-old guy teen argued: “Speaking about the virginity, I indeed want to do it, but for me it’s like I want it to be with a love person. I hate my virginity, it is like a cancer, and I want it to be gone.”
Not everyone have the same ideas about sex and virginity. But even if you think that sex can be careless and casual or a thing that should only be done, it is very important to take care of both your emotional and physical health for to be more active in bed. And most important is to have sex with partners who respect you and whom you respect, and also please practice safe sex by using condoms or other methods.
The decision to start sexual life is a very important step in you life. Most of teenagers firstly feel that they are ready for sex physically and then emotionally. As a result, the right time is not in any case the first time the occasion presents itself.
Also it is very important to remember that sex is more than a penetration or an oral sex. There are a lot of other ways to be close with another person that might be more comfortable for you than having a sex act. Some teens feel that they are close with a partner by kissing, hugging, sharing their new fantasies or even giving and getting love massages.
Be sure that only you know when the time for starting sexual life comes. But you can also ask yourself – how can I know?
Below you will find some questions which will help you to take the correct decision:
Do you wish to be in a relationship before you have sex?
What do you think sex act will affect your relationship?
What if after having sex your relationship will end?
Are you informed about safer sex?
In case you have sex, do you know how to prevent pregnancy?
Do you feel comfortable telling your partner about your likes and dislikes in sex?
Whatever your decision will be, good luck, and practice safe sex!